Embrace Connection: Understanding, Addressing, and Overcoming Social Anxiety

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O7 Therapy
Published on
December 6, 2024
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10 min read

Do you find it difficult to do things when others are around? Do you fear being criticized, avoid eye contact when in conversation or have low self-esteem?  

If so, you may be familiar with Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD), also known as social phobia. This anxiety disorder instills a paralyzing fear and avoidance of social situations, leaving individuals feeling isolated and disconnected. The impact of social anxiety disorder extends far beyond fleeting moments of discomfort; it permeates social relationships, hinders academic and professional pursuits, and could eventually robs you of the joy and fulfillment that come with genuine human connection.

In this article

  • Defining Social Anxiety Disorder
  • Symptoms and Types of Social Anxiety Disorder
  • Prevalence of Social Anxiety Disorders
  • Treating Social Anxiety Disorder

Not Just Shy

It is crucial to distinguish social anxiety disorder from mere shyness, as the two are not interchangeable. While shyness may initially evoke feelings of unease in unfamiliar situations, it tends to dissipate as individuals become more comfortable. On the other hand, social anxiety disorder manifests as an overwhelming fear of judgment. Those grappling with this disorder are haunted by the dread of making mistakes in public, being criticized or ridiculed, and facing rejection.  

Negative thought patterns silently emerge, triggering a cascade of anxious emotions and physical symptoms such as nausea, sweating, a racing heart, and dizziness. The focus shifts inward, as individuals become preoccupied with their own behaviors and feelings during social interactions, hindering their ability to be present with others. The aftermath of these encounters is often filled with self-analysis, leading to self-criticism and reinforcing the anxious feelings that preceded the event.

Symptoms of Social Anxiety Disorder

The symptoms of social anxiety disorder are multifaceted, reflecting the immense impact it has on individuals' lives. These symptoms include:

  • An intense fear of social interactions being observed or performing in front of others.  
  • A fear of negative evaluation looms large and social situations  
  • Blushing, racing heart, trembling, sweating, nausea, shortness of breath, dizziness, lightheadedness, and muscle tension in social situations.

As a result, individuals either avoid these situations altogether or endure them with an overwhelming sense of dread. The fear and anxiety experienced are often disproportionate to the actual threat posed by the social situation, and this pervasive pattern of avoidance and anxiety significantly impairs various areas of their lives, such as their social circles and occupational endeavors. It is crucial to note that these symptoms are not attributable to other mental or medical conditions or substance abuse.

Prevalence of Social Anxiety Disorders

Social anxiety disorder is more prevalent than one might imagine, with studies indicating that approximately 7-8% of the global population grapples with this condition. These statistics underscore the magnitude of the issue and emphasize the urgent need for increased awareness, understanding, and support.

Treating Social Anxiety Disorder, CBT, Exposure Therapy and ACT

The path to healing may vary depending on the severity and frequency of symptoms, but the first step is reaching out for help. Psychotherapy is the cornerstone of treatment, empowering individuals to overcome their anxiety and reclaim their lives.  

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is one of the most commonly utilized therapeutic approaches for social anxiety disorder. It equips individuals with new ways of thinking, behaving, and reacting to social situations, helping them navigate their anxiety. CBT also provides practical social skills and coping mechanisms to employ when confronted with anxiety-inducing scenarios.  

Exposure Therapy

Exposure therapy, a type of CBT, gradually exposes individuals to their fears, allowing them to confront and overcome them. This therapeutic modality is often complemented by relaxation techniques to help individuals manage their worries effectively.

Acceptance & Commitment Therapy

Another therapeutic approach that can be employed is acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). ACT incorporates mindfulness, goal setting, and acceptance techniques to help individuals cope with social anxiety disorder.

Combination Therapy

In some cases, medications may be prescribed in conjunction with psychotherapy. Antidepressants such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) or serotonin-norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs), beta-blockers, and anti-anxiety medications are among the pharmacological options available. It is crucial to remember that both psychotherapy and medication require time to yield results. Adhering to prescribed dosages and seeking guidance from mental health professionals is essential, as abruptly discontinuing medications can have adverse effects.

When to seek help

Untreated social anxiety disorder can become chronic, progressively eroding your ability to form connections and feel a sense of belonging. However, with the right support, you can break free from the chains of social anxiety and reclaim your sense of self-worth, confidence, and social connections.

Take the first step towards reclaiming your confidence...  

While shyness is a common experience, seeking help is crucial when social anxiety disorder significantly impairs daily activities and overall well-being. If you or someone you know is grappling with the symptoms of social anxiety disorder, it is imperative to reach out for support from a mental health professional without delay.  

Remember, you are not alone in this journey, and there is a path towards liberation from the clutches of social isolation. By embracing connection and seeking the necessary help, you can rediscover the joy of genuine human interaction and build a fulfilling life filled with meaningful relationships.

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